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You don't need terms. Autistic people are as individual as everyone else, and you have zero need to know an autistic persons' individual needs. If you need to discuss your own needs with a healthcare professional, you go ahead and do that without placing yourself on a scale in comparison to others.
Did you actually read any of the links, or just thank me for them?
Either way, here are a couple of others you could probably use:
https://www.neurodiverging.com/what-is-internalized-ableism-neurodivergent-people-need-to-know/
https://www.autisticparentsuk.org/post/overcoming-internalised-ableism
If you really want to insist on ranking yourself, no one is going to stop you, but you don't get to rank others, nor to pretend that ranking yourself is completely benign and not tied in to ableism, internalised or otherwise.
As for the last part - I didn't misunderstand you at all. Those needs you are looking for in an autistic person are completely and utterly irrelevant to you as a reader of their experience, and as far as you're concerned any or all of the people who have already written about their experience of ABA fit in to your narrow and ignorant category, they just didn't mention it because again - it isn't fucking relevant.
you make good points. Thanks for sharing your thoughts with me.