[-] indistincthobby@lemmynsfw.com 15 points 8 months ago

Cops don't fucking defend anyone, the fuck are you on about?

[-] indistincthobby@lemmynsfw.com 7 points 8 months ago

What about long distance relationships?

[-] indistincthobby@lemmynsfw.com 6 points 9 months ago

Could you link me to those surveys?

[-] indistincthobby@lemmynsfw.com 12 points 9 months ago

Help me understand please, how is it a survival need? Maybe back in the 1800s when you were working a farm and needed to produce extra pairs of hands to help? Nowadays it seems to me that while it might be nice to have a proper family having children is a financial burden that many can't bear, whether they want to or not

[-] indistincthobby@lemmynsfw.com 11 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

I don't know, from my limited view into the kink community if this was a sub/dom setup he wouldn't need the incentive, the subs I know of in the lifestyle not just the bedroom are legitimately dedicated to their dom counterpart and would do their damndest to keep on top of their duties, not have to be coerced into doing them by a tacky chart

I'm no expert though, I just hang out in a sub focused discord

[-] indistincthobby@lemmynsfw.com 7 points 9 months ago

Straight dudes, get yourself pegged

[-] indistincthobby@lemmynsfw.com 5 points 10 months ago

I hope this is appropriate to post here, I took another short video this morning but I figure I'll wait a while to post to make sure I'm not spamming. If you want to see more check out my redgifs profile

[-] indistincthobby@lemmynsfw.com 5 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

For me, a session starts with like an hour long shower, doing a deep clean (mostly because I enjoy it, not cause it's truly necessary) and doing some body shaving and just getting nice and relaxed. I usually then get some level of dressed up (cage at a minimum), and then I get started fucking myself. I built a dildo mount rig that's basically a pillar that I can adjust the angle on from horizontal to vertical with a padded base for me to kneel on. A session usually goes like 40-90 minutes, but my longest has been like 4 hours. I wear the cage because I'll lose my self control and want to cum early in, but that kills the horny and ruins the session. This way, I'll have to interrupt what I'm doing and go back over to the shower if I want to cum, and I really don't want to stop hahaha.

(https://www.redgifs.com/watch/luminousgainsboroflicker if you want to see a session in action)

I personally find the difference between a good session and a great one is all in my headspace. Getting dressed helps with that, I usually do thigh highs and arm warmers at least. Making cute moans and whimpers helps too. I also usually read erotica while I'm going, half to fuel the fantasy and half because my adhd brain can't just do one thing at a time, no matter how great it is.

It's been kind of a weird time, going on this journey of self discovery and finding out how subby I am and not having anyone to be subby to/for lol.

[-] indistincthobby@lemmynsfw.com 7 points 1 year ago

I saw it. Enjoyed it. It was fun to watch. Not sure what else you really need in a movie tbh

[-] indistincthobby@lemmynsfw.com 7 points 1 year ago

I feel like everyone in this thread are arguing two different things. "My neurodivergence has made my life hell and I wish I never existed in the first place" and "you can live a fullfilling life with neurodivergence" aren't conflicting concepts to me.

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