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(i am genderfluid and bi btw but still sapphic 🙏 😅)

i’ve seen people joke flirt with each other as friends, but not like this, so idk if these two are friends or dating. Emma is being nicer so i added her alt when she added me to a gc, but these things she”s saying and what she’s doing in a group chat instead of dm’s is kinda putting me off…

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[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 3 months ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (5 children)

~~Does Olivia know you're not a cis man? If they know you're genderfluid, they're basically 1. denying your identity and 2. outing you to others, both of which are concerning.~~ It looks like Olivia is trying to affirm Alex's gender (Alex is transmasc, not transfem).

Emma is not just inappropriately sexting in a group chat (presumably without consent) and when that makes you (reasonably) uncomfortable they 1. dismiss your boundary and 2. insult you. This is the behaviour I would expect from a sexual predator.

Personally I wouldn't want to continue interaction with either of them ...

[–] alexsystem 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

sorry for not responding earlier, using this account since lemm.ee is shutting down. it turns out that emma is an apologist of cases like sexual harassment and attraction to kids & teens

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

not surprising, hopefully you haven't continued interacting with them

[–] alexsystem 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

nope, not since emma called me annoying for having autism and olivia lied that i wanted to go out with her and stalked my accounts after asking if she and i were dating (i said no)

edit: i forgot that emma told everyone she was my gf too

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

that's good - it's important to protect yourself, there is no reason to continue interacting with people who have red flags

[–] alexsystem 2 points 1 week ago
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