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[-] wise_pancake@lemmy.ca 111 points 8 months ago

Steve never did plant his garden, instead he put it off feeling like too much if an amateur to even begin buying seeds, and instead invasive creeping Charlie and thistles colonized his decaying garden beds.

I know those guys are trying to be helpful, but to a newb they can feel like you’re not ready to even start your hobby, when the best way to start any hobby is to go and get something started, even if it isn’t perfect.

If you go to a local seed store they’ll probably be able to point you to native wildflowers, or there are lots of sellers online for seeds.

[-] Rodeo@lemmy.ca 8 points 8 months ago

I know those guys are trying to be helpful, but to a newb they can feel like you’re not ready to even start your hobby

Don't let other people hold you back.

If you're trying to start a new hobby and you get put off by people giving you information because you think they're being condescending, learn to put aside the personal feelings so you can focus on the thing you wanted to focus on.

New information is useful regardless of how it was presented to you. You can't control how other people act, but you can control how you react to it. Learn to take the good and leave the bad.

[-] wise_pancake@lemmy.ca 6 points 8 months ago

There's such a thing as too much information, and it's not always relevant to a beginner.

[-] Zink@programming.dev 1 points 8 months ago

And that’s not even accounting for all the armchair experts in various online groups for the hobby. They will VERY confidently tell you stuff that is wrong or at least sub-optimal.

I’m thinking more of hobbies that involve animals rather than plants, but still the Dunning-Kruger effect and the black & white thinking are a hell of a combination.

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