Same energy as insinuating my personal emissions and plastic habits are what will make/break the planet.

No. This is all in the control of far more powerful groups. Why would I ruin time with family by discussing something fundamentally out of our control? Only serves to divide and no good comes of that kind of discussion.

I'll focus on paying bills and eeking out a basically okay life in spite of the shit that goes on.

I mean, if they entered the country illegally them even being within the borders is a crime in itself. We shouldn't let criminals just run free as they wish.