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my boyfriend called women, specifically lesbians, boring?? (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) by s0larfl4re@sh.itjust.works to c/kindnesskommunityalt@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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i’m 22, gay trans man. my boyfriend is 21, cis man. he said women, specifically lesbians are boring and that he prefers men, specifically gay guys but not straight.

how are lesbians boring?? I don’t get it. is it because gay guys like men and lesbians don’t? i’m trying to understand, sorry 😭

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[–] alexsystem 4 points 1 day ago

my guess is that it’s because lesbians aren’t relatable to him nor attracted to him, so gay guys are “better” to him

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Have you tried asking him what he meant? Like why he finds them boring.

[–] s0larfl4re@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

he said he didn’t know why

[–] profgrumpypants@midwest.social 6 points 2 days ago

Gay men, when I was younger, were very catty to me. Until I started showing up with other men (g/s/b/a), and then they were very nice. Sometimes I had liked to think about it as cats and dogs, but I think it's something else. Something like, men seeing there's absolutely nothing they want to gain from x, so they don't give a toot. Gotta tell you though, not a fun mindset. Humans gunna hu though.