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when i first heard about the male loneliness epidemic i was like oh yeah close camaraderie and bonding between men is often discouraged in favor of competition or, if not discouraged, at least filtered through a lens of individualism that precludes deep connections. and then i learned what people meant by it (men arent getting laid) to which i say skill issue

to all the men out there not getting laid: try less hard to get laid and try more hard to be an enjoyable and relaxing presence

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[–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 0 points 2 months ago

If anybody here wants to make friends but not get laid, I invite you to my discord channel. We're planning to make the leap to a different platform soon, but no idea when.

[–] But_my_mom_says_im_cool@lemmy.world 0 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Can’t be enjoyable and relaxing sorry, got blue balls

[–] deaf_fish@midwest.social 0 points 2 months ago

I've been there it sucks

[–] plyth@feddit.org 0 points 2 months ago

How does it spread if they are isolated?

[–] Phegan@lemmy.world 0 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Wait, it's about not getting laid and not a lack of bonding and friendship? Oh yeah absolutely a skill issue. Try treating women like humans and show empathy. It works pretty darn well.

[–] zarkanian@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 months ago

This isn't about women.

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