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[–] madeinthebackseat@lemmy.world 10 points 2 weeks ago

The "win" is figuring out what works for the lady, and there's not a specific manual for each woman.

Guys, in my experience, 60-70% of women need clitoral stimulation to make "it" happen. However, it's not the same playbook for every lady, and each lady generally has a set of reliable "plays" that work.

If you haven't already tried, introduce toys into the process - I have never had a partner regret it.

[–] MuskyMelon@lemmy.world 10 points 2 weeks ago

No issues... Sometimes you gotta think of her sister to finish so fair is fair..

[–] blargh513@sh.itjust.works 9 points 2 weeks ago

See, this is so true!

Now someone tell my wife that using a fuck machine in my my ass and nipple clips is super reasonable!

Please and thank you.

[–] slickgoat@lemmy.world 9 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Do whatever gets the job done. So many unnecessary hangups.

If she needed me to kill a chicken for her to get off, I'd ring that poor little bastard's neck (the chicken's, just to be clear.)

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[–] chocrates@piefed.world 8 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I often offer to use a vibrator with a partner but they rarely take me up on it.
I really like making my partner cum and it's so much better at it

[–] captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Among the women I've dated, a few didn't own any sex toys they admitted to me, a few admitted to having sex toys they wouldn't show me, a couple were open about having them but didn't want to masturbate in front of me, one would, and only one chick would do toys plus intercourse.

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[–] minorkeys@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

If men had to jerk themselves off after piv just to cum, women would not take that well, just saying.

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[–] Akasazh@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I first misread and thought she was using the toy on the guy.

Which can be emasculating in a fun way btw

[–] Nasan@sopuli.xyz 8 points 2 weeks ago

As a guy, it can be amazing in the right hands. I kind of feel bad for guys who are too closed minded to experiment in the bedroom.

It's like people who only eat meat and potatoes. Which is fine, but there's a whole world out there and so many ways to climax harder than one would think was possible.

[–] peoplebeproblems@midwest.social 5 points 2 weeks ago

What the fuck?

Hell no it's way fun.

Or was way fun. I remember it being fun. I don't want to have memories

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