340
smt devastating (lemmy.world)
top 18 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[-] Todd_Padre@lemmy.world 74 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Real talk. If you find yourself hanging around a crush for years with no reciprocation, move on.

Even if it somehow happens, it won’t work out. There’s a reason y’all aren’t together right now, and it would be the same reason y’all would never last.

You’ll be much happier talking to new people and you’ll be much more likely to find someone who actually likes you back.

[-] Lilith02@lemmy.world 17 points 1 year ago

Or you could just learn to be OK with being friends.

[-] Todd_Padre@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago

If the crush is persisting for years it’s not a healthy friendship. Sure, crushing for a few months then fading, great, you can be friends. But if it’s been years and you’re still holding a flame, clearly proximity to this person is keeping you from getting over the crush.

Friendship is not one person secretly being in love with the other.

[-] egonallanon@lemm.ee 10 points 1 year ago

Yeah very much a "don't let perfect be the enemy of good" situation.

[-] dis_honestfamiliar@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

I agree with this. Good tip here y'all. Let's just move in if the feelings aren't reciprocated. An adviced I should had followed long ago instead of wasting years of life thinking it could happen.

[-] altima_neo@lemmy.zip 47 points 1 year ago

Thats fucking cruel...

[-] jonatan83@lemmy.fmhy.ml 36 points 1 year ago

Oof. Some people are just sociopaths.

[-] tias@discuss.tchncs.de 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Yeah. Better bite the bullet, move on and stay the fuck away from those people forever.

[-] G59@lemmy.world 18 points 1 year ago

Wow, I pity the guy/girl liking someone for 8 (!!) years but never actually confessing.

[-] coldv@lemmy.world 17 points 1 year ago

The maths say it is still possible that OP is still a kid. They could've had that crush since they're 5 or something. This sounds like some high school shit and I really hope it is.

[-] SJ_Zero@lemmy.fbxl.net 14 points 1 year ago
[-] AlaskaMan@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago

This is maximum cruelty by a psychopath.

[-] Hebry@lemm.ee 6 points 1 year ago

reddit moment

[-] JohnSaveourSocks@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

This is how supervillans are made.

[-] nodsocket@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Average reddit post

this post was submitted on 08 Jul 2023
340 points (97.8% liked)

Lemmy Shitpost

26715 readers
3869 users here now

Welcome to Lemmy Shitpost. Here you can shitpost to your hearts content.

Anything and everything goes. Memes, Jokes, Vents and Banter. Though we still have to comply with lemmy.world instance rules. So behave!


Rules:

1. Be Respectful


Refrain from using harmful language pertaining to a protected characteristic: e.g. race, gender, sexuality, disability or religion.

Refrain from being argumentative when responding or commenting to posts/replies. Personal attacks are not welcome here.

...


2. No Illegal Content


Content that violates the law. Any post/comment found to be in breach of common law will be removed and given to the authorities if required.

That means:

-No promoting violence/threats against any individuals

-No CSA content or Revenge Porn

-No sharing private/personal information (Doxxing)

...


3. No Spam


Posting the same post, no matter the intent is against the rules.

-If you have posted content, please refrain from re-posting said content within this community.

-Do not spam posts with intent to harass, annoy, bully, advertise, scam or harm this community.

-No posting Scams/Advertisements/Phishing Links/IP Grabbers

-No Bots, Bots will be banned from the community.

...


4. No Porn/ExplicitContent


-Do not post explicit content. Lemmy.World is not the instance for NSFW content.

-Do not post Gore or Shock Content.

...


5. No Enciting Harassment,Brigading, Doxxing or Witch Hunts


-Do not Brigade other Communities

-No calls to action against other communities/users within Lemmy or outside of Lemmy.

-No Witch Hunts against users/communities.

-No content that harasses members within or outside of the community.

...


6. NSFW should be behind NSFW tags.


-Content that is NSFW should be behind NSFW tags.

-Content that might be distressing should be kept behind NSFW tags.

...

If you see content that is a breach of the rules, please flag and report the comment and a moderator will take action where they can.


Also check out:

Partnered Communities:

1.Memes

2.Lemmy Review

3.Mildly Infuriating

4.Lemmy Be Wholesome

5.No Stupid Questions

6.You Should Know

7.Comedy Heaven

8.Credible Defense

9.Ten Forward

10.LinuxMemes (Linux themed memes)


Reach out to

All communities included on the sidebar are to be made in compliance with the instance rules. Striker

founded 1 year ago
MODERATORS