I'm from feddit.nu, the swedish instance. Or at least one of them, there might be more swedish instances I am not aware of. I like it because I can find local content and post in swedish.

I think everyone should aim to find a smaller instance where they feel like they belong to and create their account there.

There's no reason to have a federated system if everyone uses the same 3 large instances.

Came from lemmy.world to unilem.org and am enjoying it so far. They are stating they wont defederate

Why are all the answers here from FMHY? It was like 20th on the list in terms of popularity when I joined. I chose it because it had fewer restrictions - users can create their own communities and, most importantly, downvote (the chart I looked at said some didn’t have downvotes??). Also I assume pirates know how to run a server.