Lesbians

Well I told y'all about the coworker that I might be crushing on. She dropped today in a conversation that she has a boyfriend and I feel crushed. I think I'm gonna befriend her anyways because I'm mostly ace so differentiating between crush and friendly affection is not that easy for me and we vibe really well after all. I'm like an excited puppy around a bunch of people anyways and most of them I don't have any romantic feelings for so who knows, I might just be generally happy around her without romance involved anyways.

yeah, i’ll probably seek advice on this community a lot now that I’ve found it.

so this girl nadya acts like she’s kind of avoiding but kind of not, it’s so weird. nadya and i used to be quite close since we met 3 years ago.

nadya has been really quiet lately though, specifically around me. she considers us friends and continues to talk to me, and will be normal sometimes. sometimes she smiles and waves back so i know she doesn’t HATE me.

anyway, i’m putting this under Lesbians bc i’m wlw (or more specifically, nblw) and i like this girl 😓

i guess what I’m trying to say is that she acts differently around me, but it doesn’t seem all negative?

I’m not certain she’s interested in me since this one “mean girl” thinks nadya likes her and very well may, but i wanna know what this might mean, especially as an enby with a sapphic crush 😅 (if i qualify as sapphic)

i think most people can relate to this 😅 lol

Gals I'm in trouble. Some co-workers and I went to a sporty after work event on Friday and one of them i really vibe well with.

So anyways as a bunch of people start to leave we kinda move to the side as our muscles are also done for the day and get into some deep talk about some worries that have been plaguing her.

At some point we both kinda move to go so we get moving into the changing rooms while taking the whole time. At some point I compliment her charisma and she thanks me in a cute shy tone (you never see her being shy at work). We move out and know that we won't be taking the same train. Her's actually just moves in to the station and she ignores it kinda and just keeps walking with me to a later station as my train doesn't drive from that location.

The talk moves to me as well and my deeper problems and motivations and what not. Anyways as we get to the stop both our trains depart from we keep talking while waiting.

As my train is like a minute from arriving she does a thing that I kept thinking about the whole weekend: she asks really shyly if it is ok with me if she also hops into my train for the 2 stops until our lines split. Idk I could see and feel from her voice how she didn't want our talk to end and my heart just melted. She hopped into my train for the 2 stops and then got out as planned as she had a later meetup with a friend of hers that was already planned way in advance.

Idk I'm sure I'm overthinking things and also I keep hearing how you're not supposed to date people from your workplace.. but I felt drawn to her from the moment we met for the first time and her going out of her way to spend more time with me makes me quite giddy right now 😖

Idk I kinda needed to share this with y'all

(posting to here bc it’s my actual lesbian community)

Okay, that’s good for you that you thought you only liked women until you met your boyfriend, but that doesn’t mean that some man is gonna magically make me like men more.

I’m probably a biromantic lesbian because there are men I would still date, and they’re sorta like exceptions for me.

Whenever the topic comes up/I mention it for whatever reason, maybe for advice, whatever, I tell my friend (gf's friend, acquaintance i just met, or not a close friend who i talk to a lot), and they say something like “Oh, I used to think I only liked girls too until I met my handsome boyfriend ❤️”

And: “Maybe one day a man will change your life and point of view just like a man changed mine <33”

I’m happy for you and your BF, and I’m glad that you figured out you liked men too. I’m happy it worked for you, but like I said, some people aren’t attracted to men. A man isn’t going to “fix them” or “change their life”.

I don’t need a man to make me realize that I really like guys all along or anything. I get that some people are just trying to relate to the situation and that’s fine, but I’ve gotten this response a lot and needed to rant a little.

I guess “vamos lésbicas” 🇧🇷

And in the language I’m learning: “chodźmy lesbijki” 🇵🇱

:3

Hi lezzies!

I am a new-ish lesbian, just realized 1.5 years ago.

How goes it? And how has there not already been a lezzy group here? On the queerest instance I know?