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[-] Zexks@lemmy.world 96 points 2 months ago

I have been specifically and repeatedly told women at work don’t want flirting or any other interpersonal interactions. So that shit is shut completely off when in public.

[-] Crashumbc@lemmy.world 71 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

And that's absolutely true! Until the one time it's not, and then it's your fault for not knowing.

TBF, I normally go by "off limits unless they make an obvious move".

Which the cashier definitely did. Of course, like the OP I wouldn't realize it till later...

[-] rickyrigatoni@lemm.ee 8 points 1 month ago

But was it an obvious move, or did you read too much into the friendliness they're paid to show all customers?

[-] fibojoly@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 month ago

That's when you ask things plain and simple. One of my exes was the manager for a fast food joint and at the end of her shift, sitting at my table and kinda chatting away. At some point I simply asked her "so are we going back to your place to make sweet love after that, or what?" with my french accent on full blast. It had the desired effect of making things clear.
I wish I had had the balls to do that more often in my life!

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