The fact that you think the only solution is an AI that you think will in any way work to make things better and not just be ignored is really telling of who you are and your tech absolutist nature.

I got raped by my mother as a kid and I don't think I have the disdain for people like you do.

And tech isn't necessarily a better option. Very clearly not helping this world right now and that search for god in a machine is as much the same as the people you look down upon for searching for god in the sky.

Things won't stay the same forever. It doesn't necessarily mean it is gonna get immediately better and it's gonna happen (with lots of ups and downs) however reality happens, but fate is for those who don't act.
And right now, what we have is the present.
Try living in it. It's happening whether or not you hate it.