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There's no freedom in having to do something but you're also not free to choose your wants.

Maybe it's better to just live and let life happen instead of thinking about what could've been. What ever happened is the only thing that could've happened.

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[-] ContrarianTrail@lemm.ee 2 points 2 days ago

Feeling you can and actually being able to do so are different thing.

I'm not saying your tastes can't change; I didn't use to like the taste of coffee but now I do. I however didn't choose to start liking it. My taste simply evolved over time. Now I couldn't choose to not like it.

What do you feel like you have the ability to change your preference about then?

[-] idiomaddict@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

I decided not to like gummy bears anymore because I was eating too much of them, and since then they always taste flat. I’ve got Debby Downer powers like Britta.

[-] ContrarianTrail@lemm.ee 1 points 2 days ago

So you realized it's not good for you and you wanted to change the habit. That perfectly aligns with the title of the post.

[-] idiomaddict@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago

I knew it wasn’t good for me to start, I just used to enjoy them through the guilt until I made the conscious decision not to like them.

[-] ContrarianTrail@lemm.ee 1 points 2 days ago

You didn't just choose to not like them, though. That's not how human psychology works.

[-] idiomaddict@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago

I don’t know what to tell you. I decided one day that I didn’t want to like them anymore, and then I didn’t enjoy them enough to eat them from then on.

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