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Small talk is an essential skill
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this post was submitted on 13 Oct 2024
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I'm sorry that's a red flag. Some of us honestly just want to share what excites us with the person(s) who we are excited to be around.
I agree. I think they're looking at this wrong or maybe just picked a poor example of what they're trying to explain. Talking about hobbies and things that excite you isn't a red flag at all.
That's it. Hobbies? Interesting musings? Sure. Even how their day was. But nobody is excited enough about mustard to hear about it for that long. Or people who "think out loud" they say something and I'm like "what?" They respond "just thinking out loud" or "talking to the dog" and then get mad at me for not listening to the important stuff because I simply don't have the time or mental capacity to filter that.
Some people are, but more importantly it's about sharing your conversation partner's excitement because you care about them, not the mustard.
(Also, life's more fun when you let yourself be excited by the mundane. We all die some day.)
Right, but like I pointed out several times, they're not any more excited about the mustard than I am. They just like hearing themselves talk. And it wasn't about trying the new one, it was just 20 minutes about why the mustard she used to get wasnt good enough anymore. Like 20 minutes of mustard bashing just to say "I thought I'd like to try a new one".
Obviously they were if they were talking about it for 20 minutes.