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I'm not desirable because I have resting bitch face. I always look like I'm angry even when I'm not. I'm also 6'3" so I'm imposing. I'm also covered in tattoos and scars some of which are obviously from self harm.
All of these individually are reasons for women to be uninterested in me. All of them together make me damn near impossible to approach.
And even when I do approach women they're so busy being afraid of my physical appearance they can't see that I'm not even close to a threat to them.
And that is not any women's fault.
BTW: there's a good chance, that your way of approaching other people is far more threatening/aggressive than you might think.