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This is a community for bisexuals, their allies, friends, family, anyone curious about us or our community, or just people who want to hang out.

Bisexual means different things to different people, and I'm not going to tell you what it should mean to you. But one thing I will say is that being bisexual does NOT mean being trans-exclusionary. We love no matter what dingles, dongles, or dangles you do or do not have in your pants.

Of course, there are the basic rules. No hate speech, no brigading, no doxing, no homophobia, no transphobia, no sexism, no racism, no illegal material. Rules will be added as needed.

At the moment, we do not have a hard and fast rule over NSFW images or posts, but I will say that this is a community about bisexuality, not for porn. Please don't make me ban NSFW content altogether.

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I'm straight and I have gay sex with my housemate for money, does that make me gay? (lemmy.world)

submitted 1 week ago by Brandanfinchh@lemmy.world to c/bisexual@lemmy.world

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I already told you how it all started in my previous posts, but now it's different because I started having sex with him, before he only gave me blowjobs and now I started fucking his ass. I have to admit that it's a very nice thing to do, I've never fucked a butt before, I've always fucked pussies.

and I'm a little confused, because it started for money [not counting the jerk off we did in college watching porn] and I feel absolutely nothing for him other than friendship and brotherhood, he doesn't attract me at all but I enjoy fucking him, although it's not as satisfying as doing it with a woman.

and I realized that what I enjoy is having a man on a par dominated and in my power. that makes me horny and I don't know why.

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[–] Azzu@lemm.ee 8 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (4 children)

I mean power is attractive, you don't have to wonder anymore why so many people spend their lives chasing it, you're experiencing it yourself.

Sounds to me like you're bi, just with a strong preference to women. I think most bisexuals lean one direction or the other, me included.

But yeah, could still also just be the power thing, fucking a hole simply feels nice for the penis, doesn't really matter which hole if you're not prejudiced.

Edit: but also after going through your profile, you spend so much time and energy talking about it, thinking about it, the whole thing seems pretty clear to me ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ that's for you to hash out though, whatever you feel is valid.

[–] Brandanfinchh@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I don't think about this all the time, I just write about it here. I think about other things too. It's also true that this is almost my entire life. I live with him, I fuck with him, I eat with him, I talk with him, I work with him... it's hard not to think about it.

[–] Azzu@lemm.ee 2 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I see, makes sense :)

[–] Brandanfinchh@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

good to know and i discovered that i'm a straight gay for pay.

[–] Azzu@lemm.ee 2 points 1 week ago

Thanks for letting me know, glad you figured it out :D