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I think it actually covers two different scenarios.

There are cases of men not listening to women and what women have to say (and vice versa, let's not forget that). Those can be women's rights issues, personal struggles, just everyday things etc. etc. - something people need or want to share.

And there are cases of women (and sometimes men, too) intentionally putting an enigmatic air because they think they are more attractive this way, or because they don't know how to approach things in communication, or because of anxieties.

Or, often times, people don't say something because they expect a negative reaction, commonly by extrapolating from their beliefs about a wide group of people, so even if someone's actually willing to listen, it will never get there.