You're still sort of dodging the crux of the issue, you continue to place blame on the oppressed rather than engage with our comments and begin to grasp why the ultimate onus of responsibility lies on the oppressing classes. Let's not get too derailed here (pun intended) from the original context: Your comments were a critique of public transit, followed by trying to back up that critique with a personal anecdote of a time you felt threatened by a homeless person. The responses to this barely surface level take that indicated influence by a deluge of reactionary propaganda were not out of line to make uncharitable assumptions about you, since we have had a large influx of bad faith arguments along these lines since federating.

I am not the one that banned you, and you're right it's not even in my power since I am not a mod of c/urbanism, but it should be a point of self reflection on why that is the route you took instead of being indignant about it. You're the one that came into our instance and you might not understand what our rules fully entail or what reactionary behavior is but that's not really our fault, I gave you a detailed breakdown of the reasons folks that post like this get banned so quickly and you might read it if you care as much as you appear to.

Hell you can still post on Hexbear if you aren't site banned but you might try to start by asking good faith questions without preloading them with personal grievances. Or you can ask me, I'm pretty patient when I have reason to believe the inquirer is acting in good faith.

That said just be aware that civility is often reserved for people that have proven the latter so given prior engagement, just don't expect people not to dunk on you for an exceptionally bad take. Ignorance is not always a good excuse.

Thank you for apologizing and not turning out to be a total asshat as that would have been awkward.

(leaving this space in case ass is worn like hat in the future)