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I expected my kids to figure out how to bypass my site blocks (All they had to do was change DNS), but they never did. I eventually just turned them off as they got older.
Millennials were peak generation for self-taught tech literacy. We were raised in an environment where the technology was simple and open enough to actually be configurable, all while the prize on the other side of figuring out the technology was rewarding.
The older generations didn't have as strong of a reward for figuring out the tech. And the younger generations have too steep a learning curve to get around things, so they never even learned to try, like the "baby elephant syndrome" phenomenon.
Haha, I've just kept the embarrassing pics (3-2-1 backed up) as blackmail material. They're still only 8 and 6, so not changing DNS yet, but when they do I'll be proud. I plan to make weak blocks and ramp them up as they learn to circumvent. Teach tech skills while allowing a drop feed of inappropriate content.
The bigger issue for me is how to teach them privacy when they have never experienced it.
Ugh, now they just know lots of ways to commit suicide and ended up damaged. Parenting is hard.