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Ye Power Trippin' Bastards

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This is a community in the spirit of "Am I The Asshole" where people can post their own bans from lemmy or reddit or whatever and get some feedback from others whether the ban was justified or not.

Sometimes one just wants to be able to challenge the arguments some mod made and this could be the place for that.


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All posts should follow this basic structure:

  1. Which mods/admins were being Power Tripping Bastards?
  2. What sanction did they impose (e.g. community ban, instance ban, removed comment)?
  3. Provide a screenshot of the relevant modlog entry (don’t de-obfuscate mod names).
  4. Provide a screenshot and explanation of the cause of the sanction (e.g. the post/comment that was removed, or got you banned).
  5. Explain why you think its unfair and how you would like the situation to be remedied.

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Expect to receive feedback about your posts, they might even be negative.

Make sure you follow this instance's code of conduct. In other words we won't allow bellyaching about being sanctioned for hate speech or bigotry.

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There's a post about it.

That post explicitly says it's not a place for debate or participation from users of other instances.

I'd like to respect that but I think events like this need debate and discussion because it helps to develop and evolve the culture of lemmy and the fediverse in general.

The post says:

This post is "FYI only" for blahaj lemmy members. It is not a debate, and is not intended for non blahaj lemmy users to weigh in and offer opinions.

I recently received reports of a feddit.uk user espousing transphobia. Specifically, this was a feddit.uk user refusing to use the word cis, repeating the "adult human female" dog whistle, and claiming that trans women are not women. I approached a member of the feddit.uk admin team and raised my concerns and sought clarification of their stance on posts like this, where the transphobia is mostly dogwhistles, and "civil disagreement" on the validity of trans folk.

I was told by the feddit.uk admin that their preferred response is this kind of transphobia is to "sort it out through discussion and voting". However, the comments in question are currently more upvoted than downvoted, and little "sorting out" has occurred. The posts remain in place.

At this point, the admin stopped responding to my messages despite being active elsewhere on lemmy. When it became clear they were ignoring my messages and had no intention of removing the posts in question, I made the decision to defederate the instance.

I know some folk agree with the feddit.uk admins approach of pushback through discussion and voting, but this instance is not designed to be that kind of space. Blahaj lemmy is meant to be a place where we can avoid the rampant transphobia universally visible on nearly every other social media platform, and where we can exist without needing to debate our right to do so.

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[–] curbstickle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 1 day ago

You first have to be aware that they exist (they are)

Agreed

then you have to be aware that a specific phrase is one

They were informed, yes. Whether they knew before or not isn't known, but also irrelevant at this point.

you'd have to verify that the report is one

Negative. They are aware the phrase is a dogwhistle. The user realizing that or not is no longer relevant. Remove and notify of the reason.

and then decide what to do about it

Adhere to rule 1 of their instance.

Moderation does not have to be instant.

When the admin is on, available, responds, then stops responding but continues to make comments/posts..... Question answered. They decided against moderating.

I don't believe anyone said anything about "instant". What was said was they went unresponsive.

I agree with you that a comment using that dogwhistle needs to be removed

It IS a dogwhistle.

Whether a user realizes that or not is irrelevant to moderation.

As in, was the delay at the time of the post reasonable.

Not remotely relevant at this point.

  1. Admins were aware
  2. Admins understand and agree its a dogwhistle
  3. Admins chose not to address and stopped communicating while continuing to do other things on the instance.

Not "We're figuring it out", just.... Radio silence.

No, sorry, not relevant at all.

I believe that they were still well within the range of an acceptable time frame for a policy decision on an unfamiliar dogwhistle.

Not without saying as much. And that has nothing to do with their reasoning - they agree its a dog whistle.