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Warning: We have a tendency to post things that may at times come from a self-deprecating perspective or things that are funny coming from another queer person. This space will always be a safe place for transfems, non-binary people, people with a feminine gender expression (GNC or otherwise) or anybody else in the LGBT Community to come together and share about our experiences but we truly feel that laughing about the sometimes silly and embarrassing parts the queer experience can help bring us together. We never mean offense or harm in anything posted but rather they are satirical takes coming from queer people.

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[โ€“] HollowNaught@lemmy.world 12 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago) (1 children)

One time we were having drinks at a local pub because a coworker was leaving the job and moving into the city for a different job/uni

I (fairly drunk) told her that, since I'm in the city a fair bit because of uni, I'd be happy to help her if she needed anything

Fast forward to the next morning and I'm waking up realising that it probably looked like I was hitting on her, when I just wanted to be helpful

So yeah it's those moments that make me not want to make the first step (even if the intention was different)

[โ€“] jaschen@lemm.ee 12 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

You're not hitting on her. You were being helpful. Nowwww.... If you continued and followed up multiple times, then yes. Harassment. But if you left it like this, you're just a nice guy.

[โ€“] HollowNaught@lemmy.world 4 points 14 hours ago (2 children)

That's the problem though. I was drunk at the time and can't properly remember what I said fully. It is well within reason I was too insistent or said it weirdly, given that I have 0 social awareness

Oh well. Guess I'll continue to let it be my thought demon for the next decade or so

[โ€“] jaschen@lemm.ee 8 points 13 hours ago

Please try not to overthink it. This lady had every opportunity to walk away but enjoyed your company.

As long as you're not grabby/feelie you're good.

I'm a very social person that works in marketing. My job works directly with engineers with 0 social skills and we are close enough that they express the same type of concerns as you.

Again, don't overthink it. Unless you're a superior, your coworker can leave your presence at anytime b

You were drunk and might've just been repeating yourself in general