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[–] Machinist@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago

IDK, I've seen it at drag shows at three venues in the south. So anecdotal and maybe regional. I've also seen them purchased in straight bars for girls/bachelorette parties along the same vein as body shots or getting 'straight' girls to make out.

The way I've seen it done, for smaller drag shows where audience participation is possible. The hostess calls for virgins, and all the straight guy virgins are pointed out and have to come to the front and do the hands ree shot. Everyone catcalls and the room goes wild.

It's really funny, and done with good intent, but you can tell the dudes have never been objectified that way.