LGBTQ+

I'm on the fence about that one. I think in queer company, sure. But non-queer people saying that feels ..... Ignorant and disrespectful.

I had an argument with a very drunk friend of mine when we were like 20, years ago. He was basically spouting biphobic stuff at me that "it's all gay", that "bi? You're just gay" and stuff like that. It felt really belligerent, homophobic, dismissive, and belittling, all at the same time.

So umbrellaing under gay, to me, is dangerous, optics-wise.