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Is it too early for a (21F) proposal to her? (23F) (lemmy.ml)

submitted 5 days ago by wendyz@lemmy.ml to c/lesbians@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 years. I want to surprise her by proposing to her and being all fancy for our hangout soon, but I don’t want to move too fast. 3 years should be fine, right??

Anyway, I’ll tell you how it goes!!

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[–] lwhjp@lemmy.sdf.org 6 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Err, just be aware that Japan does not (currently) recognize same-sex marriage, although some local governments offer unofficial perks to couples. That should change with the pending supreme court case, but the government has a history of dragging its feet on things it really doesn't want to address.

Other than that it's pretty awesome here :3

[–] wendyz@lemmy.ml 4 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Aaa, to be fair, she lives in Spain. I wish they did recognize it in her home country though! Maybe when we go to Japan, they’ll recognize it or we get married in the U.S or Spain or something