im 157cm (5′2)
26yo male
i have been in a realationship for 3years
and i did had success somewhat with girls. tho sometime I feel like i need to work very hard, harder than my tall friends.
if im not on my top shape and lean i feel like im not enough, and given less chances with girls.
im pretty muscular, and have an ok face, i also pretty nice to talk to and tbh i never had a first date which the girl didnt want to go to a second date with me. but the height a lot of times made some girls not even consider me, and tbh 157 cm is like shorter than 99% of guys.
im thinking about doing it to get to 5′6 tho i also dont wanna be the guy who is known for doing limb lengthning surgery cause its like an insecure thing.
im pretty lost tbh. need some outsiders perspective ty
I wouldn't.
I'm a 5'1" lady, and I've met plenty of short fellas with girls, I've dated a few myself.
I even worked with a guy, who was 5'2", not a bad person, but he had a medical problem with his BO, like, needed an Rx $60 deodorant, medical problem. We shouldn't have known about it, but he never got the Rx deodorant and instead we all had to smell his rotting death BO. Like, it wasnt normal. He had a girlfriend The girlfriend liked it...
If he can find love, theres hope for you too. I didn't meet the love of my like until I was 32. You have plenty of time yet.
I was checking out a short baddy just yesterday.. don't tell my 6'3" husband.. I just thought the guy was handsome. I didn't do anything about it obviously, but like, even in highschool senoor year my crush was no more then 2 inches taller than me, and he was my crush until he told me he slept with over 200 women, true or not idk, but we stayed friends for a time. Last I saw him, he and his wife were swingers.
Good women don't give afuck about this kind of thing. Changing your body is dangerous and risky. Wear your body with pride, have confidence, the rest will follow. The surgery won't really impact your outcomes I don't think.