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Advice on tucking? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 2 days ago by quantumgenderino@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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I have been trying every evening for the last few days to get a good tuck for an hour or two, but no matter what I do, my balls pop out of place in short order. I tried doubling up on panties and that was decent, but things still wouldn't sit still, and now I have a gaff I've been practicing with. With panties, it feels like they're just not putting enough pressure to keep my sack in place and keep my balls up, and with the gaff, but also to a lesser degree my panties, the crotch is so narrow, my sack will inevitably hang out one or both sides enough that a ball can pop out and hang out in there instead. I haven't tried tape yet because I have done 0 hair removal because I'd rather get that area done professionally at least for the first time, and shaving has always resulted in a red, irritated mess, down below, or on my face. I don't know if I just have a particularly large and fleshy sack that refuses to be contained or what, but if you have any tricks you use, I'll try anything right now.

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[–] quantumgenderino@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 day ago

The trick of wearing the front of the gaff lower than I expected seems to have done what I needed! I thought ordered a hipster gaff, but it appears I got something closer to a slingshot🤦‍♀️I was intending to return it if I didn't like it after trying it on for a minute, but because of my hyperfixation, it's been wedged up my ass for days, so I guess I have a really minimal gaff now!😅