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[–] lordnikon@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Yeah I tried a discord group called Gamers Who Chill: DFW but it tended to skew to collage kids or teens. Didn't feel comfortable engaging. As i didn't want to come off like a creepy old dude by talking to kids.

[–] sunzu2@thebrainbin.org 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Some games will have younger audience, I really don't see an issue tbh but their spazzing can get annoying quick

I am not sure what's in vogue now. But for example elite dangerous used to have a strong community for middle aged cucks. Eve online too I heard

I was able to reconnect with high schools and college friends recently via video games. If you got old friends like that, might be worth reaching out. Everyone seemed settled in a rut and bored now and willing to do it. When I tried it 10 years ago, everyone was busy "living life"

[–] lordnikon@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Oh im not sure I can go back to EVE. That consumed my life in my twenties. 😁

[–] grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I wanted to give a second vote for discord. I'm in several channels that aren't for videogames but for my other hobbies, and things like age/gender never even really come up because everyone is there to talk about whatever said hobby is. Then again, I do most of my communication through text and not voice and I suppose that can make a difference when dealing with the younger crowds.

[–] lordnikon@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Yeah i do that mainly with the tildeverse IRC channels and while fun to have a quick chat with a stranger it seems for me those interactions never cross the gap to become a genuine connection beyond talking in IRC or Discord.

[–] Manifish_Destiny@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You mean you hang out with them and they just feel mundane.

[–] lordnikon@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

More i say hi they say hi we talk about a topic then they go away. Like where you talk to an anonymous screen name an don't know anything about the person behind it. You enjoy the conversation much like how I enjoy talking with everyone on lemmy but that connection doesn't turn into a connection where im added to an invite list at that person's wedding or graduation. Like you would with a friend group.