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Today I did it. I tried one last time to get through to him. He's a Jew. I showed him a verse from the bible (Leviticus 19:33) that says to relate to a foreigner like one of your own, as we were foreigners in egypt. He doesn't care, tried to make up semantics about why It doesn't mean that.

I showed him pictures of the Everglades Concentration Camp and how they're selling merchandise, and how this is what the Nazis started with. He called me a hysterical lefty and told me "you must be the most pleasant person in the room and know everything".

I blocked him after that. It crushes me to block one of the pillars of my life from my childhood, but I can't associate with a fucking hypocrite or a fucking nazi supporter. He's 60, when they cut medicare for him, I hope my sister is ready to go bankrupt paying for his medical care, because he voted for this, not me.

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[–] ganksy@lemmy.world 48 points 3 days ago (5 children)

I'm right at this point with my dad. He still listens to Alex Jones religiously. Haven't verbalized it to him yet but I have made a decision that I no longer want any conservatives to be anything but required acquaintances in my life.

I think you did the right thing. At least his corrosive behavior will not affect you anymore. In my mind I'm hoping that my dad losing his child will jar him loose from the cult but in really nothing will feed his hunger for anger and victimhood like more cult.

If we all did this five years ago, maybe there would have been a sea change by now.

[–] ThePiedPooper@discuss.online 18 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I don't think the sadness of losing his son will be stronger than his hatred of people who are darker skinned than he is.

[–] ganksy@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

Chances are you're right. Losing his entire personality is more terrifying than losing you (or me in my case). Thank you for sharing this. It helps me getting it off my chest.

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