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Kid could toughen up a bit. Having your shoes made fun of is such a small insignificant thing. It's probably one of the best options out there, given it's not actually even about you. I can guarantee if the kid did not react to the teasing, they would find someone else to pick on. Who seriously cares about shoes?
Kids do.
Their problems are smaller than us adults', but they feel those problems with the same intensity we do. Being ostracized from your social group is a big problem even for adults. It's worse for kids.
And kids, being kids, will bandwagon the hell out of anything. If somebody clowns on your shoes every day, give it a week and half the school will be doing it. Give it a year and you're "that guy with the shoes".
Is your brand of shoes important in the long term? No, not at all. Your social status in high school also, largely, doesn't matter in the long term. But "the long term" is difficult to keep your eye on when you're looking at 4-8 years of pointless bullying in your future.
All this to say - yeah I think this is pretty dumb, but it's important to the people who are living it. And something that's important to a child should also be important to their parents, in my opinion. I was the kid with the ratty shoes and the hand-me-downs. That stuff can really do some permanent damage to a kid's psyche.
Does this mean that every middle schooler needs to have a fresh set of Jordan's and a fitted suit every year? No, of course not. But if I can spend an extra $50 once every two years to make my son happy then why wouldn't I?
This is my mindset too. It isn't about me.
As I already said in my other response, it's really about the developing child. Jonathan Haidt's books "The Coddling of the American Mind" and "The Anxious Generation" both talk about the idea of over protectionism. You cannot deny that buy expensive shoes they will inevitably grow out of to avoid some light teasing from the school boys is over protecting them. They should be tough enough to handle comments about the fact they don't have expensive shoes. If they aren't, that's a great parenting moment to help them work through those feelings and how to better handle the social situations.
I agree. Maybe I wasn't getting my point across as good as I thought I was. Language barrier and what not.
What I mean, is that I absolutely think kids should learn how budgets work and how not getting your way does too, what I am saying is that some shoes is not the hill I am willing to die on. Nor is what some petty kid is trying to bully someone about. Want the sneakers? Good, go get them. I don't care and it makes kid happy.
I think it comes down to what is important to someone. I don't care about making my kid's path more difficult on purpose to exert some kind of power, what is the point? To teach what lesson exactly? Yes on principle we shouldn't act out of peer pressure and try and be the bigger person all the time. I get that, but we have to live in reality and that is a fact of life. Who acts flawless all the time? Who is a perfect parent/person? Who makes stupid decisions that are not life threatening? We all do so maybe buy the shoes if it is witjin your possibilities and discuss how to make different/ better decisions in the future. There. No one had to suffer because of it. Move on.
And to toughen kid up I think horses do that just fine lol. There is nothing like watching them take care of a 1000 pound animal that is so delicate and so dangerous at the same time and fall off the saddle to get back on right away because they love it so much. Having an animal like that will teach you about boundaries, respect, hard work and humble behavior like no other thing.