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This is a community for bisexuals, their allies, friends, family, anyone curious about us or our community, or just people who want to hang out.

Bisexual means different things to different people, and I'm not going to tell you what it should mean to you. But one thing I will say is that being bisexual does NOT mean being trans-exclusionary. We love no matter what dingles, dongles, or dangles you do or do not have in your pants.

Of course, there are the basic rules. No hate speech, no brigading, no doxing, no homophobia, no transphobia, no sexism, no racism, no illegal material. Rules will be added as needed.

At the moment, we do not have a hard and fast rule over NSFW images or posts, but I will say that this is a community about bisexuality, not for porn. Please don't make me ban NSFW content altogether.

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I find both men and women attractive in their own ways, but I could never see myself dating a woman. I want a boyfriend. I don't look at romance games or stories where the protagonist romances a girl either because it's not relatable to me. Only men. Do I just prefer men or am I just straight?

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[–] daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 week ago

I you find both men and women sexually attractive I think that's the definition of bisexual. Even if you never act on that attraction or you don't feel romantic attraction to either men, woman or both.

There's a gap between sexual attraction and romantic attraction. We can feel sexual attraction to people we don't feel romantically attracted to, and the other way around.

If we want to go down the terminology rabbit hole I suppose the term would be heteroromantic bisexual.