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[–] Fubarberry@sopuli.xyz 16 points 1 week ago (2 children)

A lot of married couples end up sleeping in different beds eventually, but I think king sized beds are a solution for that. You can share a bed and snuggle, but also can scoot away and have your own space if you're having trouble sleeping. Best of both worlds.

[–] blargh513@sh.itjust.works 17 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I don't understand the appeal of separate beds at all. Wife grabs me like I'm trying to escape and locks on tight. Jetpacking I believe the kids call it?

She grabs on then gets real hot, I tell her shes cooking me and then she says I'm the one making us sweaty.

Then she rolls off, I come up behind her and start the hotdog and bun show. Lift a cheek, insert hot dog. Sometimes she swats me off, sometimes she pushes back and there is a lazy butt-facing shag. Those are great.

Then there are the side snugs, or she will sleep on my chest for a while.

No idea why people sleep separately. Snugs are awesome.

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

I prefer to share a bed but have a guest bedroom. It means sometimes we have friends or family visit and sometimes when I snore I don't get kicked every time I fall asleep

[–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Unless you're my wife, and you roll to the exact centre of the mattress and splay yourself out to steal as much area as possible

[–] Makhno@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Me and our dog are exiled to a tiny sliver of bed. Thankfully we have separate blankets so im not totally fucked

[–] bus_factor@lemmy.world 4 points 6 days ago

Separate blankets are a must! My wife somehow rotates the blanket exactly 90° every night. I want no part in that.

[–] Rusty@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 week ago

I'm glad that your dog has a separate blanket.

[–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] Uebercomplicated@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Easy way to remember:

me and our dog are exiled...
me ~~and our dog~~ are exiled...
me is exiled...

One sees the issue. The correct form, however:

Our dog and I are exiled...
~~Our dog and~~ I are exiled...
I am exiled...

Remains logical.

Hope this helps! Grammer can be fun...