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[–] AbsolutelyNotAVelociraptor@sh.itjust.works 14 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Not sure if you are just trolling or you smoke too much of the manosphere shit but in any case, you might want to turn off the internet and go out to touch some grass and maybe talk to a sane person.

[–] Whostosay@sh.itjust.works 7 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

You're talking to a dude that's very likely DMing 40 different women he's never met complaining about how they never go for the nice guys.

[–] AbsolutelyNotAVelociraptor@sh.itjust.works 7 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I know one of those, and another one that's becoming one. It's very funny to see them saying stuff like (and this is a quote) "I know what they (women) want, they just won't listen to me, as if they knew better". Then they wonder how approaching their 40s they are still alone and have been ghosted several times.

[–] Whostosay@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Gross. You'd think they'd get it after being left on read after they send "hey beautiful" to the Nth stranger on the internet, but people like that are just incapable of maturing.

I mean, this guy shared with us (when I was still part of that group, that I left for obvious reasons) some screencaps of his chat with a woman that would have been hilarious in a sitcom:

The guy insisted on asking her out for a coffee several times. Last time, she replied with a simple "yeah, we'll see".

He took that as a confirmation for a date (that never happened because she didn't come) and, angry because she "betrayed him", he sent her 2 voice messages (each one 3 minutes long) explaining how she betrayed him, and how bad she was because he took that time for her and yada yada.

She ghosted him of course. And he's still saying he was right and she was just a bitch.

Okay dude, you just keep going that way, no wonder why women don't want to touch you even with a 6 meter pole...

[–] resipsaloquitur@lemmy.world -1 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Why would I need to DM 40 different women to complain about how they never go for nice guys?

Is this an attempt at an insult?

[–] Whostosay@sh.itjust.works 0 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

It is, and I'm not gonna discuss it.

[–] resipsaloquitur@lemmy.world 0 points 3 weeks ago

Well, at least an attempt was made.

[–] resipsaloquitur@lemmy.world -5 points 3 weeks ago

We’ve built a society awash in narcissistic validation loops. These forces don’t just encourage narcissism but normalize it as the default mode of social interaction. People have become habituated to living inside echo chambers of praise, where questioning or contradiction is seen as an act of hostility or oppression. The quest for self-esteem has become less about actual achievement or growth and more about crafting a narrative of victimhood, entitlement or exceptionalism.