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How did you settle on a name? (lemmy.world)

submitted 1 day ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) by Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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I recently came to the conclusion that I was definitely supposed to be a woman (yay me). But I've spent the first half of my life trying to suppress that thought, that I hadn't put much thought into what I'd like to be called.

I'm trying to find a name which would suit a relatively butch lesbian with a mischievous personality who was born on terf island to boomer parents in the 80s but also works in Scandinavia. My given name has a female version, but it sounds weird for a Britt.

What made you settle on your names?

Edit: thanks for all the replies. I'm going to try out Kara for a while and see how it resonates. Feel free to suggest similar names or potential middle names (which absolutely should not start with k, by the way).

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[–] romanticremedy@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 21 hours ago

Started with the name my ex think suits me. Sounded too gender neutral and common. Tried bunch of names I can think of who were my transition goals. How did I tried? Used that name on food order and also imagined how it would feel like to get referred to that name.

Didn't like any of those either so I looked up list of woman's name. And chose something unique (at least in English speaking country) and has meaning that I feel very connected to.

Take your time