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Honestly, we should normalize multiple male orgasms. Sex should not be about me finishing once and you feeling unsatisfied.
I'm a super excited dude. I'll finish very quickly given most circumstances. But that doesn't mean I want to roll over and sleep. In most cases I want her to use my face as a seat for the next hour.
I feel like the whole idea of "lasting" is some old boomer thing. Both partners should be satisfied obviously. But if a dude cums why is that the end of sex? Most of us reload in the time it takes for their partner to even be ready.
If your partners cock is their only tool. Well, then that tells you that they only care about their pleasure.
I guess my advice to young men is to admit to your partner that you cum quickly, work that into your sex, see how quickly that can happen and the focus on her. By the time you reload you might both be on the same level.
I'm generalizing. But, it's amazing how much of sex can be improved literally by just "talking to your partner".
Finishing quickly is only embarrassing if that's the only thing you cared about happening.
It is normal though?
Obviously there are medical issues someone can have or just anxiety.
I think you need to be more specific.