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Yes, but to falsely equate misandry with misogyny or racism against white people with racism against say black people is idiotic. It requires someone to ignore hundreds of years of history and the systemic hierarchy of our current society.
While someone can be racist to a white person, white people are not being systemically disenfranchised as a minority. While someone can be mean to someone because they do not like men, men are not systemically disenfranchised by women, as women do not hold the positions of power in the hierarchy.
I very much doubt you have ever met anyone in real life who holds these beliefs as you claim them. More than likely you have projected that belief onto people who disagree with you, or are purposely obtuse when someone is explaining the difference between racism and systemic racism.
I hear these bigots every day in these communities.
I'm sorry, but the correct answer was that all bigotry is bad, and that we shouldn't make such long excuses to treat people differently.
Amen. What I hate so much is most 'woke' types just want to replace existing bigotry they disagree with it with their own form of bigotry.
They also love to ramble abotu power structures and hierachy... but what do they want to do about it? put themselves on top of that hierarchy so they can dole out punishment and reward to those they regard as 'loyal'.
They fail to realize that their fantasies of justice as just inverting the roles, not 'fixing' anything.
If you hear these bigots every day then you would easily be able to link an example for me to look at, right? Also ignoring the fact that Lemmy or really any social media platform is not an actual example of real life....
And when did I claim anything different?
And when did I excuse treating people differently? I simply rebutted your claims that conflated feminism with misandry, or your conflation of racism against white people with racism against minorities.
While we should treat people the same, the work required to do that differs between different groups of people based on our current social hierarchy.
at what point is the piper ever paid?
how can you ever make progress on these issues if there is a perpetual historical debt to be 'paid'?
I'm not responsible for slavery. It's totally bizarre and counterproductive to assume that I am. Anymore that is to assume I'm responsible for sexual crimes against women.
The people who did those things were responsible for them. If they are dead, well best we can do is forgive and move on and try to make things better in the future.
Also you're insane if you don't think women and minorities don't hold positions ove power in the hierarchy... and actively seek to re-enforce it. Power is not exclusive to white rich guys.
Lol, when you're done fighting the world's largest strawman we can have an act discussion. I never accut anyone of this?
You are pretending as if systemic inequalities are a thing of the past and ignoring the fact that these historic inequalities have modern consequences.
Minority does not mean non-existent........ The whole point of a hierarchy is that it only matters who controls the top of the hierarchical structure.
No, it's just almost exclusive to rich white guys...... It really makes everything fine as long as there's token representation. Got it.