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[–] Foreigner@lemmy.world 13 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Also a large chested 5'5" woman here, this does not surprise me at all. The only way I found peace was cutting my hair really short and going for a more androgynous look. Now people think I'm a teenage boy and leave me the hell alone.

[–] guy@piefed.social 4 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)
[–] Foreigner@lemmy.world 8 points 3 weeks ago

Baggy T-shirts, layers and hoodies do a good job of hiding the girls. Unless they're paying attention it's not hard to miss.

[–] absentbird@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

Yeah. Weirdly chest fat is not a huge gender indicator for a lot of people unless it's called attention to. I've known several trans guys with big chests who pass just fine.

The biggest indicators imo are hair: haircut, facial hair, and body hair; then voice, then height, and maybe chest/hips/muscles somewhere after that. With a hoodie most people don't even notice.