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my girlfriend doesn't like my friend (thelemmy.club)

submitted 3 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) by nonBInary@thelemmy.club to c/goodoffmychest@lemmy.world

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my girlfriend really doesn't like my friend of several years. she is constantly snippy with him and she and her friends, i've heard, talk behind his back and say stuff about how annoying he is.

i was treated the exact same way when i was bullied, so it really got me reminded of that and i got a little upset but thought i overreacted.

i'm giving her the benefit of the doubt, just wanted to share that. i hope i'm dating a nice person and not secretly a bully.

edit: we broke up.

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[–] AmourDeFrance@sh.itjust.works 9 points 3 days ago

Hiii. That sounds so rough :(

I'm glad you're giving her the benefit of the doubt, but you should be able to talk to her if this continues if she is a nice person. Her behavior is a reflection of her, not you or your friend.