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i don't know if my ex really did like me. (thelemmy.club)

submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by nonBInary@thelemmy.club to c/goodoffmychest@lemmy.world

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we just broke up, and i more or less feel like she didn't want to feel bad so she dated me. i'm highkey tired of people who only like me platonically getting with me because it's only them who try to date me, then they realize they don't like me or didn't like me all along and just played with me because they didn't want to feel bad.

i can't help but be upset and i do not wanna see my ex at all, but she's such a nice person :(

and i'm tired of never "clicking" with people because it's always their damn reason for being hesitant or breaking up with me, i never click with anyone because i'm so damn weird and different and they just feel so bad for me for that.

yes, i need someone to talk to. please be nice and don't be rude or anything like that, i'm not in the mood right now.

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[–] RFKJrsBrainworm@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Hey, I'm going to straight up tell you to let her go from a friend perspective..... trying to be an ex's friend especially after feeling taken advantage of is a great way to feel like you've been taken advantage of again....ask me how I know haha, it hurt like hell at the moment but if your ex wants to be your friend they will be...it doesn't take work.

For example my best friend growing up...haven't spoken since 05 right after college (I'm old)...I moved to his area and reached out ...it was like no time had passed....

Best way I can put it, a real friend is willing to help you move for no other reason than they like you... would she help you move?

[–] nonBInary@thelemmy.club 1 points 1 week ago

thank you so much :) she wants to be friends so i dunno, she may help me But idk