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The devil is in the details.... Being nuerodivergent doesn't exactly give you the right to make requests that would be unreasonable in any other marriage. Adaptation and communication are important in any long term relationship, but it really depends on the extent of what your request is more than it has to do with being on the spectrum.
Assume I'm a good person asking for help from those who can contribute. I mentioned that more details will be coming after my shift ends. I'm confused by the purpose of your comments. I don't see what is being added to the conversation other than a suggestion to communicate better.
Please assume the best of my intentions and that the 101 steps for help are understood.
Mainly just saying that no one is going to be able to really help until you actually communicate what your specific scenario is. Otherwise the only thing anyone really can say is to talk it out with your partner.