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They are also more likely to be popular with their friends and family, have more favorable teachers in school (teachers aren't all creeps, but most of them are susceptible to biases based on appearance), more likely to be hired and to be promoted, and have a lot more attainable options of partners than someone unattractive.
Maybe there's actually a happy medium for somewhat-but-not-extremely attractive people, but don't act like there aren't massive benefits.
Otherwise known as 'The Halo Effect'.
https://www.simplypsychology.org/halo-effect.html
Prettier people are subconciously judged less harshly by others, given more grace for mild to moderate errors/bad acts, more assumed to be acting honestly / not lying, more assumed to be factually correct about any statement/claim, more likely to be praised/celebrated... etc etc.
Also known as 'pretty privelege'.
Also works on basically all humans at a subconscious level, also doesn't matter what sex/gender the pretty person is, though the effects can work in somewhat different ways depending on a society's gender norms.
While yes, it is true that pretty people also get a lot of negative attention and judgement as well... you run the lifespanning studies, and the result that you get is that prettier people generally have better life outcomes, when you control for other variables.
Also, some notes/questions to OP...
Are you saying they get called vain while doing skin care?
Or are you saying they get called vain while publically broadcasting their doing skin care onto a machine that nearly everyone has on their person at nearly all times?
Also also, you are aware that less attractive people are much, muuuch more likely to just generally be bullied, insulted, shunned, dismissed, and also, plenty of them have throngs of dedicated haters/harassers/gaslighters too, right?
Go look up some lolcows and tell me how many of them are attractive vs average vs unattractive.
People can be creepy stalkers out of a sense of unfounded parasocial jealousy or wanting to live vicariously through a pretty person... or, an unfounded sense of immense superiority that justifies their cruel and sabotaging acts against an ugly person, a contemptible person.