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[–] riodoro1@lemmy.world 84 points 2 years ago (3 children)

I do partially agree but making the language less and less expressive because some individuals can’t or won’t learn simple rules is harming for everybody else.

[–] LinkOpensChest_wav@lemmy.dbzer0.com 33 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Literally^1^ no one is harmed

^1^and I do mean literally, in the classical sense

[–] bleistift2@feddit.de 39 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Rules in languages serve the same purpose as standards in engineering. Sure, you don’t have to follow them. And if you want your home’s piping to use 81/13 inch diameters, knock yourself out. But it’s a pain for everyone who will ever be involved with that mess. And a lot of people are involved in your choice of words and grammar.

[–] LinkOpensChest_wav@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 2 years ago (2 children)

You're really comparing language to engineering

STEM brainrot take

[–] bleistift2@feddit.de 38 points 2 years ago (1 children)

STEM brainrot take

Gotta love a civil discussion.

[–] LinkOpensChest_wav@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I was able to clearly understand your message even though you defied prescriptive conventions by using "gotta"

Gotta love how language evolves. I'm going to fuck up so many conventions today, just you wait and see!

[–] KSPAtlas@sopuli.xyz 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

dis opinion bussin blud fr fr ong

[–] usualsuspect191@lemmy.ca 8 points 2 years ago

You're in a discussion about language but unable to navigate analogy? Or even just be civil and engage in a respectful manner? Maybe sit this one out.

[–] reverendsteveii@lemm.ee 1 points 2 years ago

They don't though, because my sentence doesn't collapse and kill several dozen people if I don't use the oxford comma

[–] Zehzin@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago

Not if I cause them harm.

[–] Phil_in_here@lemmy.ca 27 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Normally I say the "usage defines meaning" argument is flimsy at best and actively encourages misuse that ultimately limits the ability for precision and nuance in language. 'Since' isn't causal, 'because' (as one can guess) is. "I've been sick since Thursday" means one thing, "I've been dice because of Thursday" means a different thing.

But then an old farmer will tell you a story about needing to buy some rubbers because they're getting into their tranny and I think, "those words don't mean that to me."

[–] lugal@sopuli.xyz 10 points 2 years ago (1 children)

the "usage defines meaning" argument is flimsy at best

So what else does? I never understood how you can reason the objective meaning of a bunch of phonemes. If usage doesn't define meaning, you can look up the meaning in a dictionary. But if it's a good dictionary, it deduces the meaning of the word by its usage. There is ultimately no other way.

[–] Phil_in_here@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 years ago (2 children)

But then a good dictionary is ultimately personal, contextual, regional, and ephemeral, making it ultimately useless.

I will never recognise 'suposably' as a proper English word. But my children might, and so to their children, until it universally is a correct, proper word. That's the scope of the tide of language.

Its a necessary battle between the old ways and the new, one that I know I am ever drifting to the wrong side of. When some people use the word wrong, they are wrong. When everyone uses the word wrong, they are right. The old guard dies and the new gaurd rises.

[–] lugal@sopuli.xyz 6 points 2 years ago

Well put. That's not to say that dictionaries are useless. I use them alot but not in my native language since that's where I know the words. In English, which is my second language, dictionaries are close enough to help me around most of the times. It's like a map. The map isn't useless because a new road is build or a cabin is no more. You can still use the map but don't trust it over reality.

[–] dontpanic@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

See also: ‘irregardless’. 😤

[–] lugal@sopuli.xyz 5 points 2 years ago

It's not that language on a whole gets less and less expressive. Some things are more expressive, like youth language often is. Borrowing words from other languages makes a language more expressive. And even in this case: you can still say "because". I don't see any harm done, except in shaming people because their dialect is wRonG and less sophisticated and therefore they are less than.