I think Stepmania has the best recommendations here if you want to bring back the DDR feel. I don't know how compatibility is for consoles, but hopefully someone makes a decent pad that works with the consoles you have (assuming hooking up a PC isn't something you're interested in).

Or you could explore other games that have a similar feel. For example, Ring Fit for Switch is interesting since it has that physical aspect, but it's even less like DDR than Just Dance.

Anyway, here are some games you can look into (I mentioned it elsewhere, but I'll repeat it here):

• rhythm - Stepmania, Crypt of the Necrodancer, games with rhythm minigames (e.g. Yakuza games), Guitar Hero (Xbox One)
• "get active" games - Ring Fit (Switch), Just Dance, Kinect Sports, maybe PlayStation Move controller?

Figure out why she liked DDR so you can pick something from the appropriate set of games.

There are two directions OP could go here:.

• rhythm games - step-mania, guitar hero, Yakuza (karaoke mini game), Crypt of the Necrodancer
• "get active" games - Just Dance, Ring Fit Adventure, Kinect Sports (I think that works on the Xbox One S?)

People played DDR for different reasons. For some, was the music and exercise, and for others it was the challenge. My wife liked both, so now she plays Just Dance for exercise and other games for the challenge.

There are directional foot input pads if you want that classic DDR feel as well.