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[-] PrinceWith999Enemies@lemmy.world 140 points 8 months ago

“Every customer should be greeted when they walk into the store.”

The singular “they” is traditional in English - it is very much proper English and has been around (iirc) since the 17th century. It’s only a big deal now because conservatives want to make gender a factor in elections.

[-] Impound4017@sh.itjust.works 26 points 8 months ago

Well said! My go-to example is ‘If someone calls and I’m not here, tell them they can leave a message’ because it covers both they and them in a singular usage.

Sidenote: I also hate the way that some people act like languages are static things, despite the known history of languages to shift and change over time. English is arguably a German creole; we don’t get to act all sanctimonious now.

[-] PoliticalAgitator@lemmy.world 14 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

If we actually followed the "your gender identity is mildly inconvenient to me so should be banned" crowd and made everything unambiguously gendered, language would become far more awkward.

"If someone calls and I'm not there, tell him or her that he or she can leave a message".

We could start doing this right now -- every time ~~they~~ he or she uses the word "they", insist ~~they~~ he or she repeats ~~themselves~~ himself or herself in a way that leaves no gender ambiguity..

[-] dgmib@lemmy.world 2 points 8 months ago

That could get really awkward if some of the neopronouns become common.

“… tell him or her or zim or xyr or thon that he or she or ze or xe or thon can leave a message… “

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