Look, I personally consider myself a "hardcore" fan, but I don't have a problem with legitimate criticisms. Things like the need for optimizations, bug fixes, etc. The criticisms of the DLC by other so-called "hardcore" fans, are not legitimate. The problem is, these people are straight fucking morons that can't bother to learn the game in the first place. They think they can just run to the bosses with their over-leveled, NG+17 character and expect to use the same methods they used for the base game and beat it the first day it's out. IT IS NOT THE SAME. The DLC is like playing a "sequel" that let's you load your character and equipment from the previous game so you can look cool, but your still starting from essentially zero. You HAVE to level up the new stuff to get back to where you were power-wise, which means you HAVE to explore, and you HAVE to change up how you approach things. You cannot just rush through the bosses to see the ending. You HAVE to play the game to be able to play the game, and the pissy babies can't fucking grasp that.

The real problem with the "community" is that a huge, huge amount of its members are shitty, asshole children with shitty, asshole parents that buy them these games, which they shouldn't be playing in the first place. The other big part of the community are the shitty neckbeards that are still children mentally.

All that said, if you genuinely suck at a game, that game isn't for you. That's why I quit playing Balatro. Not everyone is good at everything they try to do- like how my birth-giver was a home ec major (yes, that was actually a thing), but she can't cook for shit. She can fuck up Kraft Dinner. But damn can she sew, and craft, and all the rest. (She's still a narcissistic sociopath, so she can fuck right off.) So if you like the game, but can't play it, maybe just watch a streamer or something so you can still enjoy it. Hell, my wife was so into Elden Ring just from watching me play that I bought it for her so she could play it. She tried. She really, really tried. But she just couldn't do it. So we got a refund and she still loves watching me play so she can get to experience it. Not everything is, or needs to be, for everyone.