This is part of why I can't enjoy pandemic. (The other big part being we had a real life pandemic and it was nothing like the game)

Teaching gracefully is a skill I don't really have. So it's easy for me to fall into "no, that's a bad move because XYZ" and most people don't like that.

You can kind of see this in my other posts in this thread where I would be annoyed at players for making tactical blunders in DND.

At least I recognize this is almost entirely a me problem, and that's the first step towards not being a total party shitter.