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[-] Prethoryn@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Not an SO story.

Not to you know brag or anything here guys but I did have 3 people fighting over me once.

2 of them actively ended up sleeping together to try and get me to pick one of them.

I chalk it up to, "pfft it's because he uses Linux."

Kidding of course. In all honesty, I had gone through a very confusing breakup. At the time I was sleeping with three people. All of them knew about one another and they all knew I wasn't looking for anything serious because of the previous breakup. I was also trying to finish school.

All three people were really sweet and I still talk to two of the 3 and they are good people. We were all 4 going through a confusing time in our life. The one I don't speak to now is married. I wish all of them well.

Also, before you ask. (You won't but I feel the need to clarify) I am genuinely meh on the attractive scale or so I am told. So I don't know which black magic was at work but it was a fun and stressful time.

I am reading half of these stories and just appreciating how all three of the people knew about each other and all ended up being chill with one another and me. You all are dealing with some crazy shit.

[-] comrade_pibb@hexbear.net 3 points 1 year ago

I tried this weird trick where I respected her boundaries and eventually moved on with my life and we're still friends 20 years later

[-] maporita@unilem.org 1 points 1 year ago

Yep.. this is exactly the way. Take the high road, no matter how much it may hurt you to do so. Future you will thank you.

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