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'We are all Gisèle': French women rise up against 'rape culture' during Gisèle Pelicot trial (www.usatoday.com)

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They line up in front of a courthouse in southeastern France, from morning to evening, and have gathered in the thousands in cities across the country. They hold signs reading, "one rape every six minutes," "not all men but always a man," and "giving in is not consenting."

They chant: "Rapist we see you, victim we believe you."

Women across France are rallying in support of Gisèle Pelicot, a 72-year-old reluctant icon whose husband is on trial in the city of Avignon for systematically drugging her and inviting dozens of men, 50 of whom are now his co-defendants, into their home to rape her over nearly a decade.

The shocking case has sparked what many women in France call a long-overdue reckoning over "rape culture" and systemic sexism in the way the judicial system handles sexual violence.

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[-] MellowYellow13@lemmy.world 16 points 1 month ago

Terrible fucking sign and tone deaf af

[-] pyre@lemmy.world 12 points 1 month ago

guys always is an embellishment. it's almost funny that not all men became not always men. obviously not always men but if you think the numbers are comparable you're living in a fantasy land.

[-] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Most men never report, or if they do it's ignored. I've only told one person irl about the 2x it's happened to me (both times I was forced by women btw, how's that for "it's always men" hmm?)

MAYBE if whenever we claim "it's all men" or "it's always men" or some such sentiment "it always devolves into a discussion about how it's not all men," MAYBE it's time to stop doing that so the conversation can fucking progress? Nah let's keep up the tribalism, it's more fun to sow division than actually work on the issue at hand. Ffs.

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[-] Mango@lemmy.world 12 points 1 month ago

The numbers are also suppressed for men because we are not believed or taken seriously whereas women are typically believed by default.

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[-] KillerTofu@lemmy.world 10 points 1 month ago

Women made up 89% of rape victims, while 96% of sexual violence perpetrators were men.

Ok, so not so men but 96% of perpetrators are men.

[-] Ifera@lemmy.world 17 points 1 month ago

This very precise statistic comes from a single study made in bad faith, over 20 years ago. If you want to read a more recent study, with linked sources, feel free to check https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/sexual-victimization-by-women-is-more-common-than-previously-known/

[-] buddascrayon@lemmy.world 17 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

That percentage came from the 2021 report by the French government. This is not outdated information. And it's pertains to France not America.

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