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It feels all but certain that I won't be able to enjoy a prosperous life or get to retire. All of the wealth is going straight to the top. All of the opportunities to move up in the world are being rug-pulled. All of the federal agencies that help keep us safe and healthy are gone. The social safety net is getting flushed down the toilet. We will live in disease and squalor, and the most vulnerable of us will die.

Because I dared to not be a sociopath, I and anyone else who voted for sanity will be deemed enemies of the state and hunted down - which won't be hard, because it would be trivial to build the most robust surveillance state in human history if it doesn't exist already.

I myself have disabilities (which I don't think qualify for benefits) that make it hard, but not impossible, to find a job. The problem is that I just can't bring myself to do it because I don't get what the fucking point is anymore. I have to work so hard to get out of this rut just for some fascist fuck to kill me or toss me into a torture facility before I can even experience life on my own.

Have you been in a similar headspace and were able to escape it? If so, what snapped you out of it?

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[-] verdantbanana@lemmy.world 12 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago)

lots of denial, nicotine, and THC

not a fix but will definitely smooth some of the rough edges out a tiny bit

if all else fails my grandfather says to run in circles screaming and shouting

[-] krashmo@lemmy.world 9 points 19 hours ago

I don't have any good advice for you. My company held an all-hands call today during which the CEO said "Now that the election is behind us we can look forward to political stability", among other equally insane things. You could say I'm feeling pretty down about the whole situation as well.

[-] Mountain_Mike_420@lemmy.ml 3 points 15 hours ago

Brother you need some help. The rate of decay is slow and steady and almost imperceptible to a normal lifetime. Finding a job may actually help. Now’s your chance to get in where you fit in. Love games? Get a job at local games store. Like animals? Go apply at a zoo. Find people that you can relate to. Good luck man. You can do it.

[-] Gingerlegs@lemmy.world 8 points 20 hours ago

I feel ya brother. I’m 41 and wondering why the hell im even saving for retirement. I’ll be dead before I’ll ever be able to

[-] shoulderoforion@fedia.io 5 points 20 hours ago

It is a scam, in the end it is pointless to try, but you gotta eat, clothe yourself, and it's warmer indoors, which all necessitate to generate income._

[-] sem@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 19 hours ago

If you're still young and not too much in debt, try to work some fun jobs, like outdoor educator, youth hostels, ski mountain, or whatever floats your boat. Travel around. You don't have to try to make it in the world right away

[-] JoMiran@lemmy.ml 1 points 18 hours ago

OP said that they are disabled.

[-] sem@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 16 hours ago

You can still travel and work a lot of cool jobs depending on the disability. In fact there is a website called cooljobs that helps you find jobs at national parks doing things like working in the gift shop

[-] TachyonTele@lemm.ee 4 points 19 hours ago

You got me, kid. I had a stroke at 42 after busting my ass forever, and it's been the best thing to happen to me yet.

Basically just enjoy everything outside of work, politics, and religion. Family, friends, and yourself are the most important things in life.

[-] Tedesche@lemmy.world 2 points 19 hours ago

Try to find a job you enjoy from 9-5. That means focusing on activities you enjoy that are the main activity of said job. I worked in a pet store because it afforded me 30% of my time playing with puppies, even though the remaining 70% was cleaning puppy shit and stocking goods. I now work as a therapist because I spend 70% of my time talking to people about their problems (which I enjoy), and 30% doing paperwork and correspondence. Make your job something you enjoy most of them time and it gets much easier. Then, you retire and collect Social Security. As long as you’ve worked for most of your life, that’ll be a decent retirement. You’ll have to live frugally, but it’ll be livable.

Also, if you can manage it, invest $10,000 as early as you can in a stock market index fund and pay for a fund manager. By the time you retire, that will provide you with a substantial cushion to rest on.

[-] ogmios@sh.itjust.works 2 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

I had a friend who was absolutely determined to never work for anyone else, and so he taught himself how to make wire-wrap jewellery to sell. It's far from an easy thing to do, as he was incredibly motivated and spent most of his time working on it, but if you really do want to, there are ways that a person can support themselves through their own direct actions.

And yes, I second others that suggest you really should spend less time on social media.

[-] leaky_shower_thought@feddit.nl 2 points 19 hours ago

america is a capitalist country, or so i read and heard. money should be the motivator here.

and i also see your point. the general trend of money is to move upward. your fighting chance is to get the money to stay longer in your hands for you to benefit before it gets sucked up.

all i can say here is don't stay too much on the bigger things. more likely, you will not have control for any of those. focus on the smaller things you can change on the dailies.

[-] jordanlund@lemmy.world 2 points 20 hours ago

In the end, it comes down to "what do you want?"

Recognize nobody is going to just hand it to you. So whatever it is that you want, you have to work for it.

Stick a photo on your monitor if you have to. My desktop is a photo of my house to remind me of the mortgage payment.

[-] JiveTurkey@lemmy.world 3 points 19 hours ago

Right but I think the feeling is that there are people who it's just being handed to and they spend all of their time making sure I'll work increasingly harder to get what I want and likely do that until I'm near death.

[-] tiredofsametab@fedia.io 2 points 20 hours ago

To generalize the answer a bit, if for no other goal, than make the goal to move to a country that better aligns with your beliefs and that you feel rewards you properly for your work. Make incremental steps to achieving that (what exactly the list looks like depends upon the person's current state and where they want to go) and make marking each one off a goal and motivation.

[-] NeoNachtwaechter@lemmy.world 1 points 18 hours ago

Move to a really poor country and meet real people there. Your life will get better, inevitably.

[-] bkr78658@sh.itjust.works 0 points 19 hours ago

If it is the election results that are making me feel this way. I try to be optimistic even about that. I imagine what if the party I did not vote for, manages to do the good things they promised. In USA example would it not be awesome if Trump actually manages to end some wars (in at least somehow fair way)?

[-] Irremarkable@fedia.io 3 points 19 hours ago

Your mistake is assuming the actual definition of "a fair way" and what Trump means by it are not so far apart from each other it's not even funny.

For him the "fair way" for Ukraine is for them to submit and lick Putin's boot, and have their eastern regions subjected to the full scale cultural genocide already in effect.

For him the "fair way" for Palestine is naked ethnic cleansing and genocide.

So yeah, it would in fact not be awesome for those things to happen.

E: grammar

[-] bkr78658@sh.itjust.works 2 points 19 hours ago

You are describing the worst case scenario. This is not how optimism works.

[-] Irremarkable@fedia.io 2 points 19 hours ago

There's a difference between optimism and delusion

Optimism is good

Delusion is not

The optimistic view is that's the worst that happens.

[-] adarza@lemmy.ca 3 points 19 hours ago

i remember what happened last time.

i remember almost losing the most important person in the world to me as a direct result of that asswipe.

i expect even worse than what i could possibly come up with on my own.

[-] bkr78658@sh.itjust.works 1 points 19 hours ago

You know this is not true. And I believe it is also harmful responding this in a post of someone who is struggling with doom/pessimistic thinking.

[-] Irremarkable@fedia.io -1 points 19 hours ago

Frankly it is. It's a shame you've deluded yourself into believing otherwise.

Delusion is not the answer to doom and pessimism. You prepare for the worst, you hope for the best, and you keep doing the best you can with the things you have. But you sure as fuck do not delude yourself.

[-] bkr78658@sh.itjust.works 1 points 14 hours ago

Please. Be respectful.

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