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submitted 1 month ago by SpaceFox@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

I've had female friends and I've had male friends but for some reason I've noticed that females are more intimate and close to there friends then males are. Is this true for all male friends?

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[-] nek0d3r@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

I think it would be hard to nail down the overall demeanor. Of course there's the stereotype that men are closed up emotionally and sometimes male toxicity enforces that, but I think it really just comes down to how people develop emotionally and if they feel secure to trust others with those emotions.

[-] otp@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 month ago

*their

"there friends" would be like... friends that are somewhere else. As opposed to "here friends", I guess

[-] h1ghfly3r@lemm.ee 2 points 1 month ago

I'm (m) somewhat "intimate" with my friends I'll hug and stuff. But I'll play it off as a joke half the time depending on who. I was fortunate enough to have made really great friends in high-school that I can be more friendly and am secure enough that if anyone said anything it wouldn't phase me

[-] h1ghfly3r@lemm.ee 1 points 1 month ago

Adding on to this, I'm more secure when we've had more to drink so a "drunken hug" is more acceptable

[-] MrGabr@ttrpg.network 1 points 1 month ago

There was a ~1.5 year old reddit thread that talked about this

[-] jimmy90@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

yes, we're not all incels and taters and fundamentalist wannabe strong men

[-] FauxPseudo@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago
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[-] EchoCT@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 month ago

I tell my boys I love them. Kisses on the forehead before we part too.

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